How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 14:03

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
That's it for today.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Procrastinates a lot.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What do you think of Andrew Tate?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What are the best Jewish jokes?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?
Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Charting the Global Economy: US GDP Falls on Larger Trade Hit - Bloomberg
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why do I feel so tired all the time even after a good night’s sleep?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Did you ever accidentally have sex with your brother/sister in India?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.